Why really?

what makes it worth while? Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. Look how many people took a path because of peer pressure and are unhappy. I'd assume the fact more then half marriages end is not because both sides just have a courtroom paper fetish.

Most people are very much looking for a long term mate and settling, but some aren't. Now with things like divorce being more allowed in society I think people go whoa this isn't working, Im not toughing it out.

This isn't about that though. It's who the hell set up the rules of growing up. I'm not the kind to let things people say get under my skin. But I'm damn sick of hearing grow up from anyone. I do well enough. I'm a grad student I own all my cars no debt to anyone. Never late on bills. I CHOOSE to live my bohemian life style. I like saving money. I'm happy in life. I'm going places, doing things, enjoying life. I'm happy. I don't spend it all. I don't care too. I don't dress well other then my suits. I could use a hair cut. I could have a g/f but i like being single.

What i've noticed the people who are the worst off are the ones pushing the hardest on me. Cool you are in debt to a group of people, you hate your relationship, job and don't have anything working to better it. But you have the ability to be in the rat race? Good show you lived the dream of being the problems with America.

Why are we judging people by things instead of actions or character? How is a car the bank owns make you better? Also what's wrong with being happy with something not top tier? I'm avid with my cars, I have a strong connection with them. I've driven tons of high end cars, I could afford a much nicer collection. But I still smile in my cars so I keep them. I rarely add more work into them as really I'm happy.

I have no added on tasks in life. Nor do I plan to doing so. I like being simple. What's wrong with that? I have the tastes and that's another funny thing to me, people who want a Ferrari but don't even get cars. Why be top end on something you don't even care about? Even if so, in that or circle people who really are worth getting to know don't care. I know many people in hondas with a "less cool" car then mine. That doesn't mean I like them any more or less. It's about the who not the what.

Yes it's a rant nor does anyone on this site apply to it. But I'm just pretty sick of people telling me grow up. Point out the last time I called mommy and daddy to bail me out? Try never. I cover all my own stuff. I'm working my way through grad school own my own companies. Yea I'm single, I goof off online and drink before 5pm sometimes. Guess what I'm happy you aren't so stop trying to drag someone to fit in.

Live you own life what ever it may be just don't take anyone down or cause harm.

Life is short, but sweet enjoy it

Love ya all!